Experts Tell Us The Best Books To Make You Better In Bed

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This article showcases our top picks for the Best Books To Make You Better In Bed. We reached out to industry leaders and experts who have contributed the suggestions within this article (they have been credited for their contributions below). We are keen to hear your feedback on all of our content and our comment section is a moderated space to express your thoughts and feelings related (or not) to this article This list is in no particular order.

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The Tao of Love and Sex by Jolan Chang

This product was recommended by Ian Martin Ropke from Your Japan Private Tours

In the 8th century, the West was busy repressing sexuality, while in Tang period China the Chinese were well experienced with the erotic pleasures that come from fusing the sensual and the spiritual. This bestseller was written Jolan Chang, a widely respected modern Chinese expert on Taoism and erotic life. The book stresses the importance of pleasure for both partners and the need for men to restrain themselves to maximize pleasure for the female first. This book will really open the eyes of couples that have never ventured beyond Western European culture for sexual advice or practices.

The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity by Daniel P. Reid

This product was recommended by Ian Martin Ropke from Your Japan Private Tours

This book is better for men but also offers exceptional insights to women. It is a more general look at health from the Taoist perspective. But it has an entire section on sexuality and specific practices and exercises. This book was also written by a Westerner for the western mind.

Tell Me What You Want By Justin J. Lehmiller

This product was recommended by Susan Bernard from Maze Women’s Health

This book delves into our sexual fantasies and is based on the most comprehensive scientific survey ever tackled on the subject. It looks at what Americans truly want when it comes to sex and what our fantasy worlds reveal about us. The hope is that understanding will ease anxiety and shame about our own fantasies and lead to breaking down barriers to discussing them. Additionally, Justin Lehmiller is interviewed about this topic on the Netflix docuseries Sex Explained.

Sex Matters For Women By Sallie Foley

This product was recommended by Susan Bernard from Maze Women’s Health

The authors are able to draw upon their experiences as therapists , their interviews with many women, as well as scientific research to share extensive information and advice with the reader. The topics covered range from anatomy, body image, STI’s, trauma, to achieving greater sexual satisfaction and more. It’s great to give women an overview of so many of the issues involved in sexuality.

Guide to Getting It On By Paul Joannides Psy.D

This product was recommended by Susan Bernard from Maze Women’s Health

This is a lively , upbeat book that covers nearly every element of sexuality in a straightforward, plain talk, fun and amusing way. It is clearly aimed at a young hip audience but everyone has something to learn from this book. It is extremely explicit both in its illustrations and text. We refer to it as The Sex Bible – a real treat!

The Joy of Gay Sex by Dr. Charles Silverstein

This product was recommended by D. Gilson from FreeAdvice

Let’s face it: gay people tend to be better at sex than their hetero counterparts (so says my very gay opinon). I love this book because it offers something for everyone – gay, straight, or otherwise – and is extremely well written. The co-author, Edmund White, is also one of our greatest living literary writers, so the book is full of funny, tragic, and stories falling everything in between.

Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Marcus Kusi

This product was recommended by Samantha Griffith from Loveys Baby

Lack of intimacy in marriage life can lead to more severe problems such as infidelity and divorce. Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage helps you avoid that by enriching your marriage with a sexier relationship together. This book not only talks about marriage development but also self-improvement. A critical thing to digest since building a stronger relationship should be done mutually. And you can do so efficiently if you too improve yourself. In every relationship, communication is key. Emotional and Intimacy in Marriage will urge you to be open with your partner about your sexual desires which can help in rekindling intimacy in your marriage life.

Hot Sex Tips, Tricks, and Licks by Jessica O’Reilly

This product was recommended by Christian Antonoff from Excel Template

This book single-handedly taught me everything I needed to know about getting it on from the practical side of things. It opened my eyes to new forms of sexual satisfaction, techniques for stimulating, and zones that are more sensitive and prone to stimulation. I just love this book.

The Hite Report by Shere Hite

This product was recommended by Christian Antonoff from Excel Template

This is not a “scientifically backed ” book, but it contains lots of information about things men are clueless about. I learned a lot about women and got a better understanding of female sexuality and the many ways of satisfying women.

Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

This product was recommended by Christian Antonoff from Excel Template

A friend of mine gave me this book. By reading a woman’s perspective on sex and relationships, it made me realize my own shortcomings between the sheets. With the help of this book, I identified my mental barriers and I was able to work my way through them.

T.R.U.T.H.: Taking Responsibility Unleashes True Healing (Truth Series) by Mary Ellen Ciganovich

This product was recommended by Mary Ellen Ciganovich from AskMaryEllen

My new book T.R.U.T.H Taking Responsibility Unleashes True Healing can make anyone feel better while learning about themselves and inspiring hope. This book is full of 366 Truths that are not only stated – they are explained to assist the reader to utilize these Truths in their daily lives.

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

This product was recommended by Katie Ziskind from Wisdom Within Counseling LLC

I highly recommend this book if you are interested in exploring your sexuality, learning about pleasuring a female in your life, and looking to learn more about male and female sexual anatomy and sexual pleasure. Often times, our American culture talks about sexual stigmas and performance anxieties. This book helps you understand female anatomy more clearly and understand the exact areas which bring a woman intense pleasure. From there, even gain more closeness, trust, you can better bonding in your intimate partnership. I highly recommend this book for all couples, but especially to learn how to sexually pleasure a woman well.

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